The most important thing about
having a DTE is that we finally get our name on the official waitlist. The wait
time has been steadily increasing, and the current wait time for a healthy
(relative term in Africa) infant/toddler is now around three years. It could be
shorter for us due to the fact that we are requesting siblings, which aren’t
requested as often as single children, but we are mentally preparing ourselves
to wait the full three years- I mean, what is three years when you get the rest
of your life with these precious children?! I feel like my patience and ability
to be at peace in “waiting” has been tested, and tested, and tested some more
over the past couple of years…and y’all, it has been HARD. But for me, I’ve
come to realize it’s more about perseverance to not give up on the dreams and
promises God has given me, regardless of whether I see them coming to fruition
anytime soon or not. I could write a whole post on that topic alone, and I
think I will soon, but for now, I want to focus on the JOY of being done with
such a huge part of the adoption process!
And speaking of JOY and dreams, we
also found out in April that there will be yet another little Steenken joining
our family, set to arrive this year! We literally found out I was pregnant the
very same day that we sent our paperwork to USCIS to be approved (something
tells me that was more than a coincidence!). It has been so hard to keep it a
secret for so long, but we wanted to make sure the pregnancy was going well and
the baby was healthy due to my past experiences with pregnancies. But this
pregnancy has felt SO different in so many ways- so HOPEFUL (and so full of my
head in the toilet, which my doctor has assured me over and over again is
totally a “good sign!”). I ended my first trimester last week and got the
go-ahead from the doctor to shout it from the rooftops…we have a perfectly
healthy baby set to arrive at Christmas of this year! I hope to write out more
of my thoughts about our experiences on this two-year journey of so desperately
wanting children, but again, for now I just want to delight in the faithfulness
of God in our lives through this little miracle baby joining us in December! I
know so many of you have not only prayed for our adoption, but have also been
praying for us to be able to have biological children. God has heard every prayer,
and He is so faithful. Thank you from the deepest place in my heart for
contending for us in prayer as we’ve shared our journey in all of this. It
really does take a village, and I am so glad to be in this one.
“Blessed is she who believed that
there would be a fulfillment of what had been spoken to her by the Lord” –Luke 1:45